Worksheet 04

Singleness, Readiness & Relationships

This worksheet is for every woman — whether single or married.

FOR SINGLE WOMEN

Am I pursuing relationship because I am ready to love, or because I am lonely?

What do I believe a relationship will give me that I don’t currently have?

What character qualities am I developing now that I would bring into a marriage?

What does ‘waiting well’ look like for me practically?

What non-negotiables do I hold for a future husband — character, faith, values?

Where am I currently compromising my standards for the sake of attention or approval?

FOR MARRIED WOMEN

Am I genuinely supportive of my husband’s leadership, or do I resist it?

Are there ways I undermine or disrespect him — publicly or privately?

What wound from my past makes it difficult to trust his leadership?

How could I better build my husband up in the way I speak to him and about him?

What does my husband most need from me right now — have I asked him?

In what ways am I a peace-bringer in my marriage, and where am I creating tension?