We’re not talking about muscle or money—but about men who’ve lost their God-given strength to lead, love, protect, and build. This weakness has ripple effects in families, churches, communities—and yes, even in our pulpits.

Your first responsibility is not to your to-do list. It’s not to your Sunday message. It’s not even to your church. Your first responsibility is to find hope, peace, joy, and contentment in God.

What Does It Mean to Have Self-Control as a Leader?

Self-control is the ability to master one’s emotions, desires, and actions. A leader must be disciplined in every area of life—thoughts, words, and behavior—so that he remains focused on God’s mission and serves with integrity.

In today’s language, living "above reproach" might be described as "having nothing to hide," "being a man of integrity," or "walking the talk." It's about living in such a way that your character speaks louder than your words, and your actions reflect authenticity and honor.

Men’s Bible Study Notes on Character

Dec 21

Written By courtney lowe

Definition of Character

Character is the moral and ethical foundation that governs our choices and actions, rooted in integrity, honesty, and faithfulness to God. It’s who we are when no one else is watching—a reflection of our internal compass, directed by biblical principles.

Question: How would you personally define character, and why do you think it matters in your daily life as a follower of Christ?

Men's Bible Study: Making Wise Decisions and Considering the End

In life, the decisions we make shape our future. As men, we often face temptations that seem small at first but can have devastating consequences. Whether it's the allure of pornography, sexual immorality, or other harmful choices, these decisions can lead us away from God's best plan for our lives. This Bible study focuses on the importance of forethought, self-control, and the long-term consequences of our actions.

Conflict is an inevitable part of any relationship, but how we navigate it can either strengthen or weaken our bonds. In moments of discord, it's essential to stay connected, both emotionally and spiritually. Here are some simple steps to consider when resolving conflict, along with insights from Scripture to guide us through the process.

In a world where digital communication often replaces face-to-face interaction, the profound need for intimate connection with one another remains undeniable. This longing goes beyond mere physical proximity; it extends to the relational, mental, and emotional realms. We are inherently designed to bond deeply with others, seeking genuine relationships where we are truly known and understood.

In this session, we delve into the virtue of self-control, a crucial aspect of forming Christ-centered relationships and personal conduct, as emphasized in Galatians 5:22-23. The absence of self-control in our lives can lead to succumbing to temptations and impulses, straying from God's path. This mirrors the works of the flesh outlined in Galatians 5, such as immorality, impurity, and debauchery. Cultivating self-control is fundamental in resisting these temptations, thereby embodying the fruit of the Spirit.

Guarding Your Marriage: 10 Ways Satan Tries to Destroy and How to Fight Back

In the journey of marriage, couples face numerous challenges. However, there's an often-overlooked adversary working behind the scenes, seeking to unravel the sacred bond. In this blog post, we'll explore 10 ways Satan aims to lead you to destroy your own marriage and how, armed with the power of prayer and commitment, you can fight back.

Welcome to our Relationship Questionnaire Podcast! If you have any inquiries about relationships, feel free to ask, and our podcast guest and I will do our best to provide answers. Your questions are welcomed with anonymity—allowing for open exploration and candid discussions about relationships. Ask away, and let the insightful conversations begin!

Faithfulness in Relationships

This session explores the virtue of faithfulness, pivotal for building secure, loving, and Christ-centered relationships, as highlighted in Galatians 5:22-23. The absence of faithfulness in relationships can lead to distrust, insecurity, and the breakdown of communication, reflective of the works of the flesh described in Galatians 5, such as discord, jealousy, and fits of rage. These negative traits can erode the foundation of a relationship, highlighting the critical need for the fruit of the Spirit.