We’re not talking about muscle or money—but about men who’ve lost their God-given strength to lead, love, protect, and build. This weakness has ripple effects in families, churches, communities—and yes, even in our pulpits.

Your first responsibility is not to your to-do list. It’s not to your Sunday message. It’s not even to your church. Your first responsibility is to find hope, peace, joy, and contentment in God.

What Does It Mean to Have Self-Control as a Leader?

Self-control is the ability to master one’s emotions, desires, and actions. A leader must be disciplined in every area of life—thoughts, words, and behavior—so that he remains focused on God’s mission and serves with integrity.

In today’s language, living "above reproach" might be described as "having nothing to hide," "being a man of integrity," or "walking the talk." It's about living in such a way that your character speaks louder than your words, and your actions reflect authenticity and honor.